Strategies for Moving a Loved One to Assisted Living
February 4, 2020
Moving a loved one into an assisted living community can be challenging. The reality of the situation may suddenly sink in as they may feel embarrassed about their needs. Also, friends and family members may have a hard time adjusting to their new roles as supporting figures. Although the transition is uncomfortable, you can make the switch easier for everyone involved with careful planning, clear communication, and structured organization.
Preparing for the Journey Ahead
Let’s face it — this change will come with unexpected ups and downs. Therefore, you shouldn’t try to ignore your loved one’s emotions or your own. Before, during, and after the transition, acknowledge their fears about the change and remember that they will be impacted the most. Fortunately, you can give them peace of mind during this shift by patiently listening to their concerns. Don’t forget to allow yourself time to mentally process your new role, because your mindset and mental health will have a great impact on the process moving forward.
Building Your Support Team
The common saying, “it takes a village,” rings true even when moving a loved one to assisted living. No matter how much you want to accept all responsibility possible, you can’t take on this transition alone. Part of this new dynamic will involve a lot of emotion and personal family information. Therefore, you should choose individuals you feel most comfortable with as the ones closely involved during this time. These individuals might be your siblings, your children, other family members, or even trusted friends. Those who have your loved one’s best interest in mind can encourage them to feel more at ease and help you in your time of need.
Organizing Their Belongings
You and your support team will be in charge of helping your loved one with pretty significant downsizing for the move. It might help to categorize their belongings so you can decide what to keep, what to donate, and what to throw away. You might feel tempted to include your loved one in every decision, but this may trigger stress and anxiety. Instead, honor their emotional attachments to belongings, but remain practical about their needs.
Visiting Recommendations and Beyond
Ultimately, you know what’s best for your loved one and the type of social interaction they need. Stay in contact with their residential community to monitor their behavior. Then, you can determine if and when you should stop by for a visit. When you do visit, stay on the lookout for family-inclusive activities you can do together. Encourage them to also branch out and find activities they’ll enjoy when you are away. The key is allowing them to settle into their new community while still feeling connected to friends and family.
Assisted Living at Encore at Avalon
Our Encore at Avalon community is committed to guiding assisted living residents toward independence while supporting their physical and mental needs. For more information, or to take a virtual tour of our vibrant community, explore our site or call 407-270-7500.
